The Bujinkan is pretty well known to be a more relaxed martial art when it comes to etiquette. The general philosophy is one of expediency: there’s no time for it; when it’s time to train, train; respect for others in the dojo is a pre-requisite, not an additional task; that sort of thing. That being said, context is very important in budo. It’s easy for ego to creep its way into our training; after all, a martial art is an empowering tool. To curb that, we perform actions of humility or deference.
I’ve compiled a list below of relatively standard etiquette for before, during, and after training. I’m sure you’ll notice that we don’t follow some of it at our dojo, and that’s just fine; like I said earlier, they’re not hardline issues. The main point is that you err on the side of more etiquette, then you keep your eyes/ears open in order to shave off what you don’t need in order to comply with the rules of the particular dojo that you’re in at that time. This is important when attending seminars held by other groups, and especially important when you travel to Japan to train. Our actions reflect either positively or negatively on Robert and the dojo.
- Make sure your “normal” clothes/jacket/bag/shoes are placed somewhere neatly out of the way. You don’t want others tripping over your things.
- When you enter and leave the carpeted/mat training area, face the kamidana and bow.
- Keep a look out for anyone who may need any help. (a new person having trouble tying their belt, someone carrying heavy objects, etc)
- Dress how the instructor is dressed. If they’re in full gi, so are you. If they wear just pants/t-shirt/belt, so do you.
- When the instructor begins showing a technique, stop training, stop talking, and pay attention. Don’t finish the technique you’re working on, don’t finish your conversation; just stop. This requires you to remain aware of what’s going on around you at all times.
- If you haven’t met your training partner yet, introduce yourself when you pair up; you could even ask them if they have any injuries of which you need to be mindful. We’re all in this together! (“Onegaishimasu“)
- Be aware of your training partner’s skill level, and train safely.
- If the instructor comes by to give you a piece of advice on your movement, ask any clarifying questions, say thank you, and then work on the correction. Unless they specifically ask, or unless there’s an issue with your movement that you want to ask a question about, there’s no need to explain what you were doing prior; the instructor already saw what you were doing.
- Thanking your training partner at the end of your time together is recommended.
- Help put away any weapons, bags, or training materials that are still out.
- Reset the carpet/mats/etc if they shifted during training.
- Pick up any trash left behind or clean up any spills made.
- Don’t forget any of your things at the dojo.
- Ask questions! Etiquette is not intended to shut you up or to override your individual needs in favor of a “quiet ride”. Be lively! Be involved! Ask questions!
- If you are sick/contagious: don’t train. You might be able to come and watch so you don’t miss what was taught, but try not to be a vector or create fomites.
- Make sure to have your training fees ready at the appropriate times, and try not to ask the dojo to make change for you.
As you can see, most of these are typical, respectful things that we all already do; however, being mindful of a thing will better allow you to train it and use it to your advantage. We owe it to Robert, and to the heart of the dojo, to do our best.